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Families always responded well to this man because his explanations were delivered in plain english. I never heard him use trendy or complicated medical terms. I once told him how thankful families were for his clear and compassionate communication. He responded:
"People who use big words and complicated medical jargon are usually hiding behind their own insecurity. No need to hide, if you're being honest."
I never forgot that comment because I now see so many young physicians using big words and convoluted expressions when speaking to family members in hospitals. It's the BS baffles brains approach. I suppose it intimidates most people and they then fear asking questions ... can save physicians a lot of time and boost feelings of inadequacy amongst those doctors who have little respect for themselves or others.
Bottom line ... when someone has to use big words ... no matter WHAT profession they're in ... be wary of their honesty.
Best to all, C.C.
Edited by calmcookie, 31 March 2006 - 01:09 PM.
